Guohua has passed.

[wtbengineer]

It's with a heavy heart that I must announce the passing of Mrs. G., site owner and a pillar that held it up.

She passed on the 14th of August in her sleep, of breast cancer.

I sent an e-mail to her husband to inqure about her, and got the following response:

Hello.

Sorry this is my email address, (Mr. G.), Guohua's husband.

My wonderful wife passed away 11 days ago on the 14th of this month.

Guohua had been battling breast cancer for 6 years, I think (Senona) may have known about it.
 
Six years ago the Mayo Clinic had given her 6 but no more than 8 months to live, well, she treated her self and gave us 6 and a half  more years.

My wife passed in her sleep next to me.
I know she had been with out energy enough to see her own patients or log into R-N3.
 
You can not imagine how much Guohua Loved you all there.

She wanted to get better and go all of you. 
Rogue-Nation3 members meant the world to her. 
 
Please let all of her Family there know that She Loved them to the End and I am So Very Sorry for not logging in and explaining my wife's absence.

Personally I have been lost and just not much good to anyone. I’m old (very old) and can not stand the loneliness and stillness in this house with out her constantly asking me to explain things to her or hold her hand and hug her.
 
(Mr. G.)
 
You can post this email to the Admin and members if you want.
I’ll use her account and check in when I feel like I can and answer any question.

I can understand Mr. G's "lost" feeling. I'm feeling a little hollow myself. Although she was the site owner, the site WILL go on. She created and owned it, and loved everyone here, and it will continue in her memory.

I had been Googling her for a couple weeks now because I felt something was off because she had not visited since 28 July and that was a very unusual occurrence. She always checked in with the staff and let us know she would be out of town, or busy, or whatever, and that check-in was missing this time. I found nothing in Google other than links to her clinic and medical stuff concerning her practice, no obituary or anything like that, so the news came as a shock even though I knew something was not right.

There is not much more I can ad to this at this time, as I'm in a bit of shock myself. 


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Oh no!  I can't believe this.  I am so shocked and saddened.  I feel for Mr. G so much.  Condolences and may you find the strength and courage to go on.

[guohua]

Mr. G. here.

Thank You all for the Love you have shown.
I for one knew the time was near for my Wonderful Wife to pass on to be with her Realities and her Mother.
Our daughter (my stepdaughter) Jing Ping was not accepting what was coming, Jing was doing everything that traditional Chinese Medicine from 3 to 4 thousand years ago in Guohuas books recommended.

But in the end, the cancer my wife had stopped for 5 years was just to strong and attacked her Liver and Brain.
I am living from day to day with support from our little family.
The reason for No Obituary for my wife is this, I have No Family left alive on my side. I have no son, I am the last.
My wife family is all here except her father.

Our daughter lives with us, Guohuas sister and brother live 9 miles from us. So, no one reading the Arizona Republic's Obituary would really know Guohua.
My wife had ask us not to inform her patients or students, this was her decision, I think because her long time patients knew she was getting worse the last two months she actually attempted to work and PIHMA College knew she was very, very ill and her T & A took over for her.
Her father in Harbin China was informed by my wife sister and brother.

We had already arranged for her ashes to be sent to her Father to be placed next to her Mother in the Family Crypt in China.
Our daughter and her sister have taken over the patients and we all agreed to leave my wife profile listed. (Requested my our daughter to show respect)

Please know, My Wife Loved Each and Every One Of You Here.
She also respected your opinions and Lifestyles.

To her Dear Friend BIAD. You'll never know how she wanted to visit you and your wife. She Cherished you.
Thank you for the Beautiful and Thoughtful Banner.

Thank each and everyone of you for your support.
Rick

[gordi]

Oh no. So very sad to hear this news.

Boss... You were simply the best.

Safe journey, and I'll see you (later) on the other side.

Gx

[Bloodstained]

I am so very sorry...

[Rodinus]

Mr. G. here.

Thank You all for the Love you have shown.
I for one knew the time was near for my Wonderful Wife to pass on to be with her Realities and her Mother.
Our daughter (my stepdaughter) Jing Ping was not accepting what was coming, Jing was doing everything that traditional Chinese Medicine from 3 to 4 thousand years ago in Guohuas books recommended.

But in the end, the cancer my wife had stopped for 5 years was just to strong and attacked her Liver and Brain.
I am living from day to day with support from our little family.
The reason for No Obituary for my wife is this, I have No Family left alive on my side. I have no son, I am the last.
My wife family is all here except her father.

Our daughter lives with us, Guohuas sister and brother live 9 miles from us. So, no one reading the Arizona Republic's Obituary would really know Guohua.
My wife had ask us not to inform her patients or students, this was her decision, I think because her long time patients knew she was getting worse the last two months she actually attempted to work and PIHMA College knew she was very, very ill and her T & A took over for her.
Her father in Harbin China was informed by my wife sister and brother.

We had already arranged for her ashes to be sent to her Father to be placed next to her Mother in the Family Crypt in China.
Our daughter and her sister have taken over the patients and we all agreed to leave my wife profile listed. (Requested my our daughter to show respect)

Please know, My Wife Loved Each and Every One Of You Here.
She also respected your opinions and Lifestyles.

To her Dear Friend BIAD. You'll never know how she wanted to visit you and your wife. She Cherished you.
Thank you for the Beautiful and Thoughtful Banner.

Thank each and everyone of you for your support.
Rick

Stay strong Rick, my positive thoughts go out to you and your loved ones.

Kindest respects 

Rod.

[BIAD]

...To her Dear Friend BIAD. You'll never know how she wanted to visit you and your wife. She Cherished you.
Thank you for the Beautiful and Thoughtful Banner...

Thank you Rick.

[727Sky]

Of all the years I have known her she never once mentioned she was fighting breast cancer. To say she will be missed by all of us who knew her is a big understatement. Mr. G will be having a hard time coping so those who believe in prayer .......

[DontTreadOnMe]

Oh my!!!!!
Such horribly sad news.
What a shock.

My condolences to her husband, Rick, and her family.

[DaphneApollo2]

She was such a sweet lady.  Guohua will be sadly missed.  

Much Peace and Love to her Husband and daughter.  

[Schmoe1]

My heart breaks for your loss, Mr. G.  She was a fiery one, and will be greatly missed.

[xuenchen]

My God.

She was a fantastic person.

We all need to continue onward.

She would want that now.

[TheRedneck]

The world has lost a shining beacon. It is a little darker today without Mrs. G in it.

There's not much more I can say. I knew her only from this site, and not nearly as well as I would have preferred. But even so, I feel honored and humbled to have known her what I did.

This site must continue on. She is a part of it and always will be. As long as it exists, some part of Mrs. G will still be in this world.

TheRedneck

[Selbiene_Raveren]

I had a dream around tuesday/wednesday last week about people I didn't know well, but had liked. I dreamt they lost a very dear friend, and while I didn't know that person very well, it upset me enough that I woke up sobbing. I don't really remember much detail from the dream, only an older man whose face oddly reminded me of Ninurta's avatar. 

I thought that was a rather random dream. Kinda brushed it off. I guess I know what that was about now...

Here I am crying all over again. I didn't know her well, but I thought she has a beautiful soul. She will be missed.

[hounddoghowlie]

kinda hard to fathom.
she will be missed, one very kind, to the point, and funny lady whose sense of humor could brighten anyone's day.

my condolences to Mr.G and family

[FlyingClayDisk]

My deepest sympathies.  What terrible news.  I'm speechless.

I am so sorry to hear of this news!  I had no idea.  A true warrior to the very end; the very definition of stoicism.  I am honored to have had the opportunity to interact with such a wonderful person, and equally saddened to learn of her passing.

A ray of light in a world of darkness.  How she will be missed.

My sincerest condolences.

Bob

[EndtheMadnessNow]

Very sorry to hear and though I did not know her well like others here, she gave me the warmest online welcome I've ever received. Prayers & my condolences to Mr. G & family.

[FlyingClayDisk]

You know, it seems to me Guohua was the true essence of courage, something which should serve as an inspiration to all of us.

Many of us know of, but will have never walked in the shoes of someone like her.  Learning of adversity is one thing, but living it every day, overcoming it, escaping and living to tell the story is something altogether different! 

So, when we talk about 'candles burning in the halls of remembrance', perhaps the greatest tribute any of us can give to keep that flame burning is to never forget the courage and commitment it takes to believe, to wake up and do it all over again tomorrow no matter how futile it seems, and to just carry on...despite it all.

[OmegaLogos]

You know, it seems to me Guohua was the true essence of courage, something which should serve as an inspiration to all of us.

Many of us know of, but will have never walked in the shoes of someone like her.  Learning of adversity is one thing, but living it every day, overcoming it, escaping and living to tell the story is something altogether different! 

So, when we talk about 'candles burning in the halls of remembrance', perhaps the greatest tribute any of us can give to keep that flame burning is to never forget the courage and commitment it takes to believe, to wake up and do it all over again tomorrow no matter how futile it seems, and to just carry on...despite it all.

Explanation: Sometimes courage is the little voice after a really shit day ... that says "I shall try again tomorrow!"

Personal Disclosure: She taught me to never give in or give up!

[Tarzan the apeman.]

I didn't know her as well as some here did I just know she welcomed everyone new with open arms and made sure she put a smile on your face. RIP Guohua you will be sorely missed. Condolences to the family.

[Snarl]

Thank each and everyone of you for your support.
Rick

My deepest condolences, Sir.