Interesting topic for marriage with a woman

[ABNARTY]

Back in the day there was a Philippina girl I liked. But she would not date me because I was not Philippino. Sadness. 

Fast forward a short while and I met my future wife. After we got married, THEN the Philippina girl decided my ethnicity did not matter and uncomfortable situations ensued. 

Still married to my wife many years later. No off-reservation entanglements occurred. But at the time, being a young man, I was very confused.