Child Support

[kdog]

Just had the biggest scare of my life ! 

Got a letter from the child support office saying I owed money. 

Now, I paid all my child support and it ended Sept. 30 2020. My kids are 20 and 23 years old now.

I called them and they told me I owed $51,000. I about had a heart attack !

Finally got an email from them and was told to disregard the letter , that it was a communication error. 

Talk about a roller coaster ride !

Lucky for you.
Most of the time I hear they come after the Father and never admit they made a mistake.
Never hear of them ever going after the Mother when she owes.
My husband ex-wife from over 40 years ago was ordered to pay child support and never paid a penny as a matter of-fact, her and her boyfriend at the time kidnap his Son from the daycare center in 1981 and my husband never say or heard from his son again.
No law enforcement agency will help a Father only the Mother. He was forbidden by his agency to use any of their resources to locate them.
Mothers are Protected and Fathers are throw aside and ignored, Fathers are only seen or recognized as a source of Support. 

You Are Lucky.

Yes, I am lucky. I wasn't even going through the child support agency, it was paid directly to her per a court ordered agreement. 

I know how those Nazi's work and send men get sent to jail over it, even though they had paid. I was getting ready to dig through all my documents and emails , then contact my lawyer. 

I was reliving a nightmare all over again and was planning for what happen if I went to jail. 

The whole system is geared towards the women and screws over the men.