Can't define "Woman"

[kdog]

Per our middle daughter (now in her 30s) who clings to her belief in the definitions which she developed in early childhood:

"A woman is someone with a hoo-hah, a man is someone with a tallywhacker."

Exactly.   Do you have an "innie" or and "outie"?    Now, I have known good folk who were (imo) truly born in the wrong gender, and lived as the other until they were surgically corrected.   I have no animosity toward those who are sexually ambiguous or even uncertain.   I really don't care who sleeps with whom.   I don't announce my preference upon meeting folk.   I am concerned with equality.   I think all people should be equal in the eyes of the law.   

LGBTQIA.   I don't understand "Q".   It stands, apparently for "questioning".   Okay, but you're still one gender or another.   I don't understand "I" either.   Intersex, as I labour to understand it, is an indeterminant sexuality that might swing either way.   I don't think I am tuned enough to understand the difference between that and bisexual, since a person is one gender or another, despite their identification and the person with whom they have sex with.   WHOOF.   "A" -- asexual.   I really don't intend to be mean, but isn't this just another way of saying 'not gettin' any?'     I want to be respectful of people's identifications, however I think the onus is upon them to let us know how to refer to them.    I also don't care for the shaming of those who -- without mean intent -- accidentally choose the wrong pronoun.   

What I also find very clunky is the thought of future introductions:    "Hi!   I'm argentus, a heteromale, with latent epicurousness.   I like unicorns."  

Does that sound intolerant?   I hope not.   I think I'm fairly open-minded.   I have done a lot of sketchy crap in my time.   I don't think I'm completely finished.

Should be , Hi I am such and such name and leave it at that. People judge you all the time, but it is none of their business what your sexual preference is. I'm not here to fuck you , just taking care of business .