She Wants To Come Back Home.

[gordi]

I've written and re-written a reply to this about four times now.

It's very difficult to put into words without sounding callous or bigoted.

IMHO:
In simple terms, You make your own choices in life.
You make your own bed and you have to lie in it.
If you CHOOSE to leave your own country to take up ARMS (or to support those who take up ARMS) AGAINST your own country and/or its allies, then it is completely unreasonable to expect that country to take you back with open arms just because you picked the wrong side.

(*I've had to delete more /RANTing again!! I think I'll just leave it there.)
G