The simple questions to all this are:
If you were a decent parent and you're unwilling to approach a Port Of Entry and ask for asylum,
but instead attempt to sneak across the border risking your children being separated from you...
would you do it?
Does the possibility of losing your children to an alleged confused system of another country and
accept imprisonment for a crime, outweigh your desire for an assumed better life?
What is the value of your own flesh and blood?
If you were a decent parent and you're unwilling to approach a Port Of Entry and ask for asylum,
but instead attempt to sneak across the border risking your children being separated from you...
would you do it?
Does the possibility of losing your children to an alleged confused system of another country and
accept imprisonment for a crime, outweigh your desire for an assumed better life?
What is the value of your own flesh and blood?
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