What is a woman ?

[NightskyeB4Dawn]

I just find it strange that this thread went from "What is a woman?" to a LGBT (add as many letters as you want here) comments zone.

My version of a woman is for me to know. It is a personal opinion. My version of a man is also for me to know but mind you, I don't see the young generations of men anywhere close to what we were, when we were young. And that is ok with me. I know that my grandfather was having the same kind of thought about my generation. Different times, different men AND different women.

But the LGBT community, for me, is a totally different ballgame. I respect it, yet don't always agree with what they represent or pursue.

For me, the LGBT community is extremely similar to some people of the black community, who also feel like they aren't accepted but will yell racism at the first comment that goes against their way of feeling, their way of thinking, their way of acting. The others are all wrong. Not them. Never.

It's an argument no one can ever win, when the choice of a legit debate cannot even exist.

And that is something that I often see, from certain people of the LGBT commnunity AND the black community.

To get myself back on track, my definition of a woman?

Maybe it would help if we stopped putting people n groups and allowed them to be the individual asses that they are. Placing them in a group gives them a sanctuary where they can seek validation, and we provide them protection and remove them from responsibility.

I work right up close and personal with adults, pre-teens, teens, and parents from across the different cultures and financial status. Almost never do they function, speak, or behave the same, even if they share a culture or skin tone.

I don't lump all Whites, Blacks, Women, Children, Christian, etc, etc, etc, into one group. It may be easier for me because it is a part of my job and I know what kind of trouble you can get into, or make, when you assume anything about an individual based solely on what you perceive to be true.

Also I would get ripped in court if I came with just my preconceived ideas and speculation.

I am not talking about the "some not all" defense. Because 90% of the time when that is said, the person is thinking all, and rarely some.