Any suggestions and help appreciated, buying pistol

[Jinmi]

I have a Ruger Security 9 that I use for CC (the full sized one, not the smaller one that feels like a toy). Most of my lady friends carry Taurus 9mm (various models) except Cindy- that bitch carries a .44 in a shoulder holster under her big tee shirts! (She ain't playing around!)

Go with whatever feels right in your hand, that's your best bet.

I like Cindy!