(03-21-2022, 04:03 PM)ABNARTY Wrote: That is a lot to think about. I appreciate you putting it out there.

The idea of happiness being the default status of people resonates with me. 

Holding sleeping children or sleeping puppies or sleeping kittens is a powerful event. I never knew why. It reaches so deep it's amazing.

(03-21-2022, 05:08 PM)GeauxHomeLittleD Wrote: @"NobodySpecial268" 

I learned a very similar technique many years ago, but in the method I learned the child I was healing was myself. I was reminded when you wrote of your own inner child peeking from behind you. It does actually work, especially when dealing with the trauma from an abusive childhood.

Thank you for making this thread! Sometimes the years are unkind to our memory and all it takes is a little nudge to bring almost forgotten knowledge back from the dusty corners of our minds! 

Have a great week!

(03-21-2022, 05:08 PM)GeauxHomeLittleD Wrote: Hi there, thanks for sharing.

When I learned the technique from nobodyspecial268 a while back, I started applying it to my kids. I noticed a simultaneous brightening in both our temperaments. The kids mostly. One of my kids used to get into a lot of fights. Overtime, that trend decreased. I was so happy.

One day while daydreaming about holding my kids I realized that there's a little girl inside that needs to be held too.

I'm not sure how that has worked out. It gives me an electrifying and dangerous sensation. It's not as peaceful as holding my kids. But maybe over time?

Did you experience discomfort while holding your inner child?
Glad to read your assertion that "it really works".

@"NobodySpecial268" 

I learned a very similar technique many years ago, but in the method I learned the child I was healing was myself. I was reminded when you wrote of your own inner child peeking from behind you. It does actually work, especially when dealing with the trauma from an abusive childhood.

Thank you for making this thread! Sometimes the years are unkind to our memory and all it takes is a little nudge to bring almost forgotten knowledge back from the dusty corners of our minds! 

Have a great week!

(03-23-2022, 02:03 AM)Janny Wrote: Hi there, thanks for sharing.

When I learned the technique from nobodyspecial268 a while back, I started applying it to my kids. I noticed a simultaneous brightening in both our temperaments. The kids mostly. One of my kids used to get into a lot of fights. Overtime, that trend decreased. I was so happy.

One day while daydreaming about holding my kids I realized that there's a little girl inside that needs to be held too.

I'm not sure how that has worked out. It gives me an electrifying and dangerous sensation. It's not as peaceful as holding my kids. But maybe over time?

Did you experience discomfort while holding your inner child?
Glad to read your assertion that "it really works".

(03-21-2022, 02:43 PM)NobodySpecial268 Wrote:

As a new arival here, I thought I would share something useful along the lines of a metaphysical healing technique.  It is something that has arisen out of working esotericly with troubled children intensively over the last six months, and many years in preparation. I hope it will help some readers here. 

The technique is deceptively simple, and requires no expert esoteric knowledge or abilities. All one really needs is empathy and a certain memory . . . 

Have you ever held a baby in your arms?

Have you watched a baby fall sleep in your arms?

Do you remember what that experience felt like? 

Do you remember the wonder?

If you can remember what that experience felt like, that memory can be used to help heal troubled children, and adults too for that mater.

The technique is based on a simple observation: Happiness does not manefest within misery. Therefore; remove the misery and happines will begin to manefest. 

Watch the human child and one will notice that happiness is the natural state of the human being. Children are naturally happy to be alive. When misery settles in, depression results, along with the behaviours and problems that follow with depression. No one wants to see a miserable child.

The basic technique is not difficult to learn, and many people can do this naturally. 

Most people have held a small child, a son, a daughter, a niece or nephew. Family are easiest to begin with because we have a natural empathy and a sense of connection.

Remember what it felt like to have a small child fall asleep in your arms? To watch them sleep? There is a certain wonder of  the new life and realisation of how utterly dependant the child is upon the adult for everything. This is what one wants to recall. 

So let's say our small child has grown, perhaps nearing the teenage years. The child becomes reclusive and quiet for whatever reason. It is plain to see the child is miserable. 

Perhaps we cannot interviene directly as in the case of family difficulties. Especially if the child is not ours. 

Sit quietly and remember the memory of holding the child. Day-dreaming as the prefered state of mind is my best suggestion here, it is what I do. I just get lost in the daydream for a time, and forget about my conscious surroundings. 

With that memory in mind, think of the child as it is now. 

What happens is we take the child into our heart and envelope it in protective feelings.

In practice what will happen is the accumulated misery will begin to fall away from the child's subconscious. This is because we are washing away the accumulations of misery with strong feelings of love and protectiveness within a closed space. There are also ways of working very deeply with the natural processes of the body.

Just practice that and one will learn to do it with ease. My suggestion is to do this a few times a day and for short times until one can do it without concentrating. 

Watch the behaviour of the child for subtle change over the next few days. What you are looking for is a smile where there was none before. For the light in the eyes to return and brighten. Perhaps the child will seek one out for attention. Subtle changes.

That is the basic technique.

What you are not doing is visualising, nor afirming, nor calling on higher powers for assistance or to do the healing. This is important; you are doing everything yourself with your own normal waking consciousness.

The very simple principal is this; happiness is the natural state of the human being, and happiness cannot manefest within misery. Remove the misery and happiness will be the result. This is so in the child.

There are more principals involved, though those principals are not neccessary to be known for success. The simple instruction above can effect a change.

However, as adults we like the explanations and the reasoning of how things work. 

When the technique is achieved and definate change can be seen in the waking child, the return of the smile for instance and a general happier outlook, something more can happen while we hold the daydream of the child in our arms. 

The child in our arms may change.  I have watched one who is a young teen in life grow younger. When this happens one can see the troubles and pains of the past. With intuition and thoughtfullness these sources of misery can be addressed, one is being shown.

This brings us to the question; How can this be; that the daydream child in our arms can grow younger?

The answer to this question is this; What are we holding in our arms?

The answer here is; we are holding the target child's subconscious self. 

So let's define exactly what I am referring to when I use the term "subconscious". 

Subconscious: That which is below the conscious awake self. The subconscious, the body's conceiled consciousness of our organs and systems, the memories. One may include the dreaming self.  

So let's create a custom definition of mind.  Mind, for our purpose here, will include both our conscious awake self and our subconscious self plus our memories, and nothing more. In practice one finds that the individual human is also an individual mind.

In practice, one will find that it is easier to heal the sleeping child than it is to heal the awake child in this manner.

So, the question arises at this point; How does this fella know all this?

The answer here is I took on a patient who may be labled, in this day and age, early onset schizophrenia. What was learned in there paved the way with understanding for the technique described here.

The distant healing can be done in this way, and the herbs can be used as well. 

Tis an odd thing, to notice another daydream child watching as you work. Like most children who see something wonderful happening for other children, they will want healing too. 

Then you realise, the child watching from behind you is yourself. 

I will leave this here for now, and let folks ask questions, and practice for themselves. Healing the traumas, emotions and mind is a very deep subject. I am happy to take time so others can learn to do this for their loved ones, and maybe even for themselves. There is a great deal more that I can say on this healing, the mind and being human. All people have to do is simply ask . . .

(03-23-2022, 02:55 AM)GeauxHomeLittleD Wrote:

(03-23-2022, 02:03 AM)Janny Wrote: Hi there, thanks for sharing.

When I learned the technique from nobodyspecial268 a while back, I started applying it to my kids. I noticed a simultaneous brightening in both our temperaments. The kids mostly. One of my kids used to get into a lot of fights. Overtime, that trend decreased. I was so happy.

One day while daydreaming about holding my kids I realized that there's a little girl inside that needs to be held too.

I'm not sure how that has worked out. It gives me an electrifying and dangerous sensation. It's not as peaceful as holding my kids. But maybe over time?

Did you experience discomfort while holding your inner child?
Glad to read your assertion that "it really works".

I wouldn't say "discomfort" but it was very strange at first. In the method I was taught I visualized myself in the place where the abuse began- walking through the neighborhood on a beautiful sunny day, feeling the warm sun and breeze, hearing the sounds and experiencing the smells on my walk there. As I approached the driveway I saw my child self playing alone in the yard and gingerly approached her, first smiling, then talking, then playing and climbing trees together and then went from there- not an instantaneous embrace right off the bat but a gaining of trust and showing that an adult could be kind without wanting anything but to spend time enjoying getting to know her before holding her and giving her true, no strings attached love. 

It didn't all get better overnight, it took several times and going much deeper later: entering the house, witnessing the fear and later the abuse and aftermath. You have to understand that it took place for many years and I repeated the method with my child self at every age and in every place it occurred But with each time I felt better and better until I reached the point where I could openly talk about any part of it with only a little feeling of sadness for the child whose childhood was for a big part lost and finally found peace.

(03-23-2022, 03:49 AM)TDDA Wrote:

(03-21-2022, 02:43 PM)NobodySpecial268 Wrote:

As a new arival here, I thought I would share something useful along the lines of a metaphysical healing technique.  It is something that has arisen out of working esotericly with troubled children intensively over the last six months, and many years in preparation. I hope it will help some readers here. 

The technique is deceptively simple, and requires no expert esoteric knowledge or abilities. All one really needs is empathy and a certain memory . . . 

Have you ever held a baby in your arms?

Have you watched a baby fall sleep in your arms?

Do you remember what that experience felt like? 

Do you remember the wonder?

If you can remember what that experience felt like, that memory can be used to help heal troubled children, and adults too for that mater.

The technique is based on a simple observation: Happiness does not manefest within misery. Therefore; remove the misery and happines will begin to manefest. 

Watch the human child and one will notice that happiness is the natural state of the human being. Children are naturally happy to be alive. When misery settles in, depression results, along with the behaviours and problems that follow with depression. No one wants to see a miserable child.

The basic technique is not difficult to learn, and many people can do this naturally. 

Most people have held a small child, a son, a daughter, a niece or nephew. Family are easiest to begin with because we have a natural empathy and a sense of connection.

Remember what it felt like to have a small child fall asleep in your arms? To watch them sleep? There is a certain wonder of  the new life and realisation of how utterly dependant the child is upon the adult for everything. This is what one wants to recall. 

So let's say our small child has grown, perhaps nearing the teenage years. The child becomes reclusive and quiet for whatever reason. It is plain to see the child is miserable. 

Perhaps we cannot interviene directly as in the case of family difficulties. Especially if the child is not ours. 

Sit quietly and remember the memory of holding the child. Day-dreaming as the prefered state of mind is my best suggestion here, it is what I do. I just get lost in the daydream for a time, and forget about my conscious surroundings. 

With that memory in mind, think of the child as it is now. 

What happens is we take the child into our heart and envelope it in protective feelings.

In practice what will happen is the accumulated misery will begin to fall away from the child's subconscious. This is because we are washing away the accumulations of misery with strong feelings of love and protectiveness within a closed space. There are also ways of working very deeply with the natural processes of the body.

Just practice that and one will learn to do it with ease. My suggestion is to do this a few times a day and for short times until one can do it without concentrating. 

Watch the behaviour of the child for subtle change over the next few days. What you are looking for is a smile where there was none before. For the light in the eyes to return and brighten. Perhaps the child will seek one out for attention. Subtle changes.

That is the basic technique.

What you are not doing is visualising, nor afirming, nor calling on higher powers for assistance or to do the healing. This is important; you are doing everything yourself with your own normal waking consciousness.

The very simple principal is this; happiness is the natural state of the human being, and happiness cannot manefest within misery. Remove the misery and happiness will be the result. This is so in the child.

There are more principals involved, though those principals are not neccessary to be known for success. The simple instruction above can effect a change.

However, as adults we like the explanations and the reasoning of how things work. 

When the technique is achieved and definate change can be seen in the waking child, the return of the smile for instance and a general happier outlook, something more can happen while we hold the daydream of the child in our arms. 

The child in our arms may change.  I have watched one who is a young teen in life grow younger. When this happens one can see the troubles and pains of the past. With intuition and thoughtfullness these sources of misery can be addressed, one is being shown.

This brings us to the question; How can this be; that the daydream child in our arms can grow younger?

The answer to this question is this; What are we holding in our arms?

The answer here is; we are holding the target child's subconscious self. 

So let's define exactly what I am referring to when I use the term "subconscious". 

Subconscious: That which is below the conscious awake self. The subconscious, the body's conceiled consciousness of our organs and systems, the memories. One may include the dreaming self.  

So let's create a custom definition of mind.  Mind, for our purpose here, will include both our conscious awake self and our subconscious self plus our memories, and nothing more. In practice one finds that the individual human is also an individual mind.

In practice, one will find that it is easier to heal the sleeping child than it is to heal the awake child in this manner.

So, the question arises at this point; How does this fella know all this?

The answer here is I took on a patient who may be labled, in this day and age, early onset schizophrenia. What was learned in there paved the way with understanding for the technique described here.

The distant healing can be done in this way, and the herbs can be used as well. 

Tis an odd thing, to notice another daydream child watching as you work. Like most children who see something wonderful happening for other children, they will want healing too. 

Then you realise, the child watching from behind you is yourself. 

I will leave this here for now, and let folks ask questions, and practice for themselves. Healing the traumas, emotions and mind is a very deep subject. I am happy to take time so others can learn to do this for their loved ones, and maybe even for themselves. There is a great deal more that I can say on this healing, the mind and being human. All people have to do is simply ask . . .

A very interesting post I can add personal experience to.

Some years ago I had a girlfriend who was prone to migraine and headaches. I was watching TV while she hided in the bedroom, blinds closed and in agony from the migraine. I knew to leave her alone but I went to her for asking if I can do something for her. She said just stay and so I sat by the bed. After a while, I asked her if I should send her some love. This was the first time I brought "sending love" up with physical contact, as I felt up her temperature on the forehead. While doing that she said like "yes please" and so for the first time ever, I started to meditate and send love with my hand on her forehead.

I meditated and concentrated on the boundary between my hand and her head, just observing the feeling there, while I breathed up my chi (if this reads strange, look into QuiGong). And then I can not explain it, I just slowly concentrate on directing it into my hand, feeling out what is there, behind my hand. And often with migraine, I discovered afterwards, it would feel very chaotic. Like a whirlwind of a loose ball of cotton wool. Reads crazy I know but I can not explain it better. So sometimes I would send chi and sometimes not. But chi isn't love, love is in the act of willingness to spend time and energy to try ease the suffering of someone else in this case.

Often she would get better, not instantly and not always, but in a way it became apparent it was helping her. Sometimes I had the headache afterwards, what led me to be careful. Psychosomatic or indeed helping healing something different? I have no answer and do not believe others can not do this too. It's worth a try at least the next time a loved one suffers. It can not hurt, right?

But I know and heard about Reiki before, it has a bitter aftertaste for me though. Most I met practicing it just LOVE to manipulate others, taking the position of someone in the know and getting people to trust and submit. I am sure there are these good Reiki practitioners out there but it's the same like card laying for me. Often these are just people like me that are intuitively very fine adjusted with the addition of getting a kick out of being knowledgeable or mysterious in the eyes of others. I once had someone like that analyze me unasked and everyone around was upset because it was like the complete difference. But that person observed me doing something she determined for something different and that made me loose all respect for people that lay cards. But I drift off! I myself have faith and believe in such things, but often the so called medium is the fake thing / reason for it not to work.

(03-23-2022, 10:45 AM)GATS22 Wrote:

(03-23-2022, 03:49 AM)TDDA Wrote:

(03-21-2022, 02:43 PM)NobodySpecial268 Wrote:

As a new arival here, I thought I would share something useful along the lines of a metaphysical healing technique.  It is something that has arisen out of working esotericly with troubled children intensively over the last six months, and many years in preparation. I hope it will help some readers here. 

The technique is deceptively simple, and requires no expert esoteric knowledge or abilities. All one really needs is empathy and a certain memory . . . 

Have you ever held a baby in your arms?

Have you watched a baby fall sleep in your arms?

Do you remember what that experience felt like? 

Do you remember the wonder?

If you can remember what that experience felt like, that memory can be used to help heal troubled children, and adults too for that mater.

The technique is based on a simple observation: Happiness does not manefest within misery. Therefore; remove the misery and happines will begin to manefest. 

Watch the human child and one will notice that happiness is the natural state of the human being. Children are naturally happy to be alive. When misery settles in, depression results, along with the behaviours and problems that follow with depression. No one wants to see a miserable child.

The basic technique is not difficult to learn, and many people can do this naturally. 

Most people have held a small child, a son, a daughter, a niece or nephew. Family are easiest to begin with because we have a natural empathy and a sense of connection.

Remember what it felt like to have a small child fall asleep in your arms? To watch them sleep? There is a certain wonder of  the new life and realisation of how utterly dependant the child is upon the adult for everything. This is what one wants to recall. 

So let's say our small child has grown, perhaps nearing the teenage years. The child becomes reclusive and quiet for whatever reason. It is plain to see the child is miserable. 

Perhaps we cannot interviene directly as in the case of family difficulties. Especially if the child is not ours. 

Sit quietly and remember the memory of holding the child. Day-dreaming as the prefered state of mind is my best suggestion here, it is what I do. I just get lost in the daydream for a time, and forget about my conscious surroundings. 

With that memory in mind, think of the child as it is now. 

What happens is we take the child into our heart and envelope it in protective feelings.

In practice what will happen is the accumulated misery will begin to fall away from the child's subconscious. This is because we are washing away the accumulations of misery with strong feelings of love and protectiveness within a closed space. There are also ways of working very deeply with the natural processes of the body.

Just practice that and one will learn to do it with ease. My suggestion is to do this a few times a day and for short times until one can do it without concentrating. 

Watch the behaviour of the child for subtle change over the next few days. What you are looking for is a smile where there was none before. For the light in the eyes to return and brighten. Perhaps the child will seek one out for attention. Subtle changes.

That is the basic technique.

What you are not doing is visualising, nor afirming, nor calling on higher powers for assistance or to do the healing. This is important; you are doing everything yourself with your own normal waking consciousness.

The very simple principal is this; happiness is the natural state of the human being, and happiness cannot manefest within misery. Remove the misery and happiness will be the result. This is so in the child.

There are more principals involved, though those principals are not neccessary to be known for success. The simple instruction above can effect a change.

However, as adults we like the explanations and the reasoning of how things work. 

When the technique is achieved and definate change can be seen in the waking child, the return of the smile for instance and a general happier outlook, something more can happen while we hold the daydream of the child in our arms. 

The child in our arms may change.  I have watched one who is a young teen in life grow younger. When this happens one can see the troubles and pains of the past. With intuition and thoughtfullness these sources of misery can be addressed, one is being shown.

This brings us to the question; How can this be; that the daydream child in our arms can grow younger?

The answer to this question is this; What are we holding in our arms?

The answer here is; we are holding the target child's subconscious self. 

So let's define exactly what I am referring to when I use the term "subconscious". 

Subconscious: That which is below the conscious awake self. The subconscious, the body's conceiled consciousness of our organs and systems, the memories. One may include the dreaming self.  

So let's create a custom definition of mind.  Mind, for our purpose here, will include both our conscious awake self and our subconscious self plus our memories, and nothing more. In practice one finds that the individual human is also an individual mind.

In practice, one will find that it is easier to heal the sleeping child than it is to heal the awake child in this manner.

So, the question arises at this point; How does this fella know all this?

The answer here is I took on a patient who may be labled, in this day and age, early onset schizophrenia. What was learned in there paved the way with understanding for the technique described here.

The distant healing can be done in this way, and the herbs can be used as well. 

Tis an odd thing, to notice another daydream child watching as you work. Like most children who see something wonderful happening for other children, they will want healing too. 

Then you realise, the child watching from behind you is yourself. 

I will leave this here for now, and let folks ask questions, and practice for themselves. Healing the traumas, emotions and mind is a very deep subject. I am happy to take time so others can learn to do this for their loved ones, and maybe even for themselves. There is a great deal more that I can say on this healing, the mind and being human. All people have to do is simply ask . . .

A very interesting post I can add personal experience to.

Some years ago I had a girlfriend who was prone to migraine and headaches. I was watching TV while she hided in the bedroom, blinds closed and in agony from the migraine. I knew to leave her alone but I went to her for asking if I can do something for her. She said just stay and so I sat by the bed. After a while, I asked her if I should send her some love. This was the first time I brought "sending love" up with physical contact, as I felt up her temperature on the forehead. While doing that she said like "yes please" and so for the first time ever, I started to meditate and send love with my hand on her forehead.

I meditated and concentrated on the boundary between my hand and her head, just observing the feeling there, while I breathed up my chi (if this reads strange, look into QuiGong). And then I can not explain it, I just slowly concentrate on directing it into my hand, feeling out what is there, behind my hand. And often with migraine, I discovered afterwards, it would feel very chaotic. Like a whirlwind of a loose ball of cotton wool. Reads crazy I know but I can not explain it better. So sometimes I would send chi and sometimes not. But chi isn't love, love is in the act of willingness to spend time and energy to try ease the suffering of someone else in this case.

Often she would get better, not instantly and not always, but in a way it became apparent it was helping her. Sometimes I had the headache afterwards, what led me to be careful. Psychosomatic or indeed helping healing something different? I have no answer and do not believe others can not do this too. It's worth a try at least the next time a loved one suffers. It can not hurt, right?

But I know and heard about Reiki before, it has a bitter aftertaste for me though. Most I met practicing it just LOVE to manipulate others, taking the position of someone in the know and getting people to trust and submit. I am sure there are these good Reiki practitioners out there but it's the same like card laying for me. Often these are just people like me that are intuitively very fine adjusted with the addition of getting a kick out of being knowledgeable or mysterious in the eyes of others. I once had someone like that analyze me unasked and everyone around was upset because it was like the complete difference. But that person observed me doing something she determined for something different and that made me loose all respect for people that lay cards. But I drift off! I myself have faith and believe in such things, but often the so called medium is the fake thing / reason for it not to work.

In reading what you did to help her, I immediately thought that it sounded like Reiki.  I got attuned for 1st level several years ago.   I don't do it much & I don't really feel anything when I do it like some others do.   The people I have done it on all say that it helped them a lot and that they can really feel something happening.  One friend told me that when I was working on her that she saw colors that she had never seen in real life.  I thought that was so cool.  I notice that when I do it on animals, they really notice it and respond.   I remember thinking after my attunement that it didn't even seem necessary.  I think, like you said, that if you have faith and believe it then it will work.  I'm sorry you met manipulative practitioners though - not cool.  I only know of a handful of people that do it but they are close to me and are only interested in helping/healing.

(03-23-2022, 03:49 AM)TDDA Wrote: A very interesting post I can add personal experience to.

Some years ago I had a girlfriend who was prone to migraine and headaches. I was watching TV while she hided in the bedroom, blinds closed and in agony from the migraine. I knew to leave her alone but I went to her for asking if I can do something for her. She said just stay and so I sat by the bed. After a while, I asked her if I should send her some love. This was the first time I brought "sending love" up with physical contact, as I felt up her temperature on the forehead. While doing that she said like "yes please" and so for the first time ever, I started to meditate and send love with my hand on her forehead.

I meditated and concentrated on the boundary between my hand and her head, just observing the feeling there, while I breathed up my chi (if this reads strange, look into QuiGong). And then I can not explain it, I just slowly concentrate on directing it into my hand, feeling out what is there, behind my hand. And often with migraine, I discovered afterwards, it would feel very chaotic. Like a whirlwind of a loose ball of cotton wool. Reads crazy I know but I can not explain it better. So sometimes I would send chi and sometimes not. But chi isn't love, love is in the act of willingness to spend time and energy to try ease the suffering of someone else in this case.

Often she would get better, not instantly and not always, but in a way it became apparent it was helping her. Sometimes I had the headache afterwards, what led me to be careful. Psychosomatic or indeed helping healing something different? I have no answer and do not believe others can not do this too. It's worth a try at least the next time a loved one suffers. It can not hurt, right?

But I know and heard about Reiki before, it has a bitter aftertaste for me though. Most I met practicing it just LOVE to manipulate others, taking the position of someone in the know and getting people to trust and submit. I am sure there are these good Reiki practitioners out there but it's the same like card laying for me. Often these are just people like me that are intuitively very fine adjusted with the addition of getting a kick out of being knowledgeable or mysterious in the eyes of others. I once had someone like that analyze me unasked and everyone around was upset because it was like the complete difference. But that person observed me doing something she determined for something different and that made me loose all respect for people that lay cards. But I drift off! I myself have faith and believe in such things, but often the so called medium is the fake thing / reason for it not to work.

(03-23-2022, 01:10 PM)NobodySpecial268 Wrote:

(03-23-2022, 03:49 AM)TDDA Wrote: A very interesting post I can add personal experience to.

Some years ago I had a girlfriend who was prone to migraine and headaches. I was watching TV while she hided in the bedroom, blinds closed and in agony from the migraine. I knew to leave her alone but I went to her for asking if I can do something for her. She said just stay and so I sat by the bed. After a while, I asked her if I should send her some love. This was the first time I brought "sending love" up with physical contact, as I felt up her temperature on the forehead. While doing that she said like "yes please" and so for the first time ever, I started to meditate and send love with my hand on her forehead.

I meditated and concentrated on the boundary between my hand and her head, just observing the feeling there, while I breathed up my chi (if this reads strange, look into QuiGong). And then I can not explain it, I just slowly concentrate on directing it into my hand, feeling out what is there, behind my hand. And often with migraine, I discovered afterwards, it would feel very chaotic. Like a whirlwind of a loose ball of cotton wool. Reads crazy I know but I can not explain it better. So sometimes I would send chi and sometimes not. But chi isn't love, love is in the act of willingness to spend time and energy to try ease the suffering of someone else in this case.

Often she would get better, not instantly and not always, but in a way it became apparent it was helping her. Sometimes I had the headache afterwards, what led me to be careful. Psychosomatic or indeed helping healing something different? I have no answer and do not believe others can not do this too. It's worth a try at least the next time a loved one suffers. It can not hurt, right?

But I know and heard about Reiki before, it has a bitter aftertaste for me though. Most I met practicing it just LOVE to manipulate others, taking the position of someone in the know and getting people to trust and submit. I am sure there are these good Reiki practitioners out there but it's the same like card laying for me. Often these are just people like me that are intuitively very fine adjusted with the addition of getting a kick out of being knowledgeable or mysterious in the eyes of others. I once had someone like that analyze me unasked and everyone around was upset because it was like the complete difference. But that person observed me doing something she determined for something different and that made me loose all respect for people that lay cards. But I drift off! I myself have faith and believe in such things, but often the so called medium is the fake thing / reason for it not to work.

'day TDDA. I'm glad you found a way to help, my ex-ish wife gets the migrains and I have the silent ones. A few teaspoons of honey is what I use these days. 

The hand technique. I use the 'eye in the palm of the hand' to treat others. The 'eyes' use the body's natural processes and inherant knowledge. It is disparaged these days. From observation, the knowledge is discouraged so other systems can take it's place. 

My mom did the three(?) Reiki levels back in the 1980s. For the benefit of her cats from memory. Though she did try the distant work on me occassionally. While I politely declined offers, there were times I would notice, and an antipathy towards other people using distant work stays with me to this day. Now that I think back, perhaps the antipathy would block due to declining. Knowing mom, there may have been a "I know better" ulterior motive behind it, perhaps unconscious.

 I'm aware of the QuiGong to a degree, so I can follow the talk of the work with chi.

(03-23-2022, 02:49 PM)NobodySpecial268 Wrote: Hi,

I have some questions if i may. :)

I have leveled up, to holding 3 kids regularly. Only 2 whom I can see visible results with. 1st question: 
Is it possible that the positive impact of of this healing technique can be retroactive concerning memories? As in, is it possible that past memories between the holder and the holdee change in quality?
For example, after about a month of holding, past memories are rosey, while 2 months ago remembering the past was not rosey, even though its the same past being remembered. Does holding kids impact memory content quality? 

2nd question: 
I recently started holding my stepmother too.
It was a big decision, as it's time consuming and requires commitment to hold anyone.
I can feel the soot of misery on her. Like slabs of cement. Heartbreaking.
I understand why adults are not favorite patients. 

Does holding someone like that have any impact on the other 3 kids being held?

Thank you :)

Quote:Is it possible that the positive impact of of this healing technique can be retroactive concerning memories? As in, is it possible that past memories between the holder and the holdee change in quality?

For example, after about a month of holding, past memories are rosey, while 2 months ago remembering the past was not rosey, even though its the same past being remembered. Does holding kids impact memory content quality? 

Quote:Does holding someone like that have any impact on the other 3 kids being held?