04-04-2022, 10:32 AM
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Quote:Is it possible that the positive impact of of this healing technique can be retroactive concerning memories? As in, is it possible that past memories between the holder and the holdee change in quality?
For example, after about a month of holding, past memories are rosey, while 2 months ago remembering the past was not rosey, even though its the same past being remembered. Does holding kids impact memory content quality?
Well, if you are remembering through a fog of misery, it follows that if the misery clears, then the memory will be brighter . . .
Quote:Does holding someone like that have any impact on the other 3 kids being held?
Well, if you have three kids, and two have improved, then there is probably no reason to keep treating those two. The logic is you are cleaning them up. You bath a kid, and then forget about it until they get dirty again. No point in cleaning a clean kid.
My suggestion is not to take on too much. Work on solving one at a time. The kid who isn't responding you'll have try and work out the reason. Something physical to solve? Something deeper?
If a kid is not responding when treated in a group, try 'one on one' is my suggestion. If it is a young kid, the misery may from a feeling of not being special or getting lost in a crowd. If that is the case then it logically follows the group treatment will not work. One can be within a crowd and still be all alone . . .