11-28-2021, 07:09 AM
I am older and have several close friends. My wife and I have entertained them over the years. What I find difficult in those circumstances is when those friends start dictating their preferences and living conditions.
We have our own life and home. Adjust to us. We shouldn't have to adjust or adapt to a long term guest who we think we are helping out and they decide to dig in and disrupt our life style. Give such person the ultimatum and when the fireworks happen you will know they are not a true friend. Loss of friendship and trust occurs.
Tragically we won't invite long term sitters or squatters whom we considered friends to stay until they sort their respective lives out. When you hit 60 old or above, and you haven't got it together, then there is something amiss we thinks.
Our thoughts, Bally and True Love,
Kind regards:)
We have our own life and home. Adjust to us. We shouldn't have to adjust or adapt to a long term guest who we think we are helping out and they decide to dig in and disrupt our life style. Give such person the ultimatum and when the fireworks happen you will know they are not a true friend. Loss of friendship and trust occurs.
Tragically we won't invite long term sitters or squatters whom we considered friends to stay until they sort their respective lives out. When you hit 60 old or above, and you haven't got it together, then there is something amiss we thinks.
Our thoughts, Bally and True Love,
Kind regards:)