We are not 20 anymore?

[Finspiracy]

So this is the forum I landed on. 

What's the point, the message, youth gone by and our preferred idealism aside. 

I could post endlessly with so many wonderful words, but I'll cut to the gist. 

I, like so many, 10 years ago would want a woman that is pure and wanting/waiting to start a family. 

So many though were lied to and left out to dry, the amount of single mothers with 2 or 3 kids I see on the scene is disgusting, not because of their own decisions, but my god, where are these men. 

5 years ago, I had no interest in woman with kids, now all of them have kids and I view that as something worth more than themselves, it's disgusting the amount of single woman that are dating that have kids, because they are so much more than just themselves(their children), why the hell have so many men run away and left them in that situation, I just don't get it. So many men that couldn't handle their responsibility, it's pretty sad, but than again there are plenty of real men out there. 

This is a rant, please don't send me pictures of your children....

We are on the same page here. Literally, this is the same RN page.  

I would actually prefer a woman who already has children. 2 Reasons, i like kids very much, and i get along with them just fine and i like to play and watch cartoons. I have been a teenage mutant ninja turtle, i have been a princess, i have been a cat. Everything. But the second one is more important, if she already has children, maybe i would not face pressure to make some show up, with her. I can't do that. I am irresponsible.

I know EXACTLY what you mean "youth gone by" i was 15 years old, decided to have a couple of beers. Then something happened. Now i am 39 years old, and everything is different, except me.

Umm... uh. Do you ever think about fine ladies, who are in a bad relationship? Those women never get compliments. Their desires are never met. They are some kind of walking dishwashers and food cookers? And then you think that they would be happier with you? I do...