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Dear Rogues
You might have noticed that I've not been around much, and that my visits have been shorter than usual.

I've been putting off posting this thread because it's still quite difficult for me to talk about the subject matter, but here goes:

My mum is 81 years old and has been diagnosed with Breast Cancer.
She is "old School" and very scared of Cancer and she (stupidly) ignored the early signs rather than face up to it.

By the time she mentioned having a lump to anyone, it had already spread into her lung.

She collapsed after a routine hospital appointment for a chest x-ray and was rushed in to hospital mid-December.
We had her at home for a couple of hours for Christmas Lunch, but she struggled for breath and went straight back into Hospital that afternoon.

5 days after her Cancer diagnosis was confirmed, my big sister found out that she also has Breast Cancer.

When I contacted my extended family (mostly cousins) to let them know, I found out that my mum's brother, my Uncle Tommy had been rushed to hospital at the same time as my mum with a serious Stroke.

When I phoned my best "girl pal" to let her know about mum & sis, she broke down on the phone and confided in me that she had just been diagnosed with a life-threatening Viral Meningitis.

My business partner has had to leave our business, so I am really struggling to try and run the business on my own. I don't even know if it's possible for me to run it alone at the best of times, but with everything else going on..?????

My van has broken down 3 times in the last 4 weeks, (for completely unrelated faults - Fuel Tank, Starter Motor and Clutch) leaving me stranded and having to arrange recovery twice, as well as paying for hefty repair bills.

My TV stopped working just before Christmas too! (DISASTER!!! LOL)

The hospital discharged my mum on 30th Dec.
She was nowhere near ready, healthy or fit enough to go home.
and... as a result...
She was rushed back in (in an Emergency Ambulance) on the night of the 31st, struggling to breathe again.

She has now been back in hospital for 8 days and has not received any form of treatment apart from pain relief and oxygen.

It has been a real struggle dealing with everything that's been going on, juggling hospital visits, as well as keeping everyone informed about what was happening with mum and big sis.
My sis also has MS, but is coping quite well and they seem to have caught the Cancer at an early stage so I'm not quite so worried about her at the moment. She had an operation to remove the lump 2 days ago and was back home yesterday.


But, my mum has been deteriorating since going back in to hospital.
We are frustrated and angry at all the delays and lack of treatment.
She is weak and tired and very ill.

I wanted to post this here now to let you all know why I've not been myself lately and to ask if you wouldn't mind sending my mum some positive thoughts to help her through this.

Many Thanks,

Gordi
tinywhat  Holy Moley!  Life has struck your family hard!  So sorry for what you have been, and are, going through.


A candle has been lit for your mother, and I'll keep her in my prayers.  In the mean time, a very little-known secret about a natural cancer cure is apricot seeds.  I'm not sure how many a person needs to eat, but it has been confirmed to work for other people.  Maybe you could look more into that for your mom and also your sister.

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I'm very sorry to hear all of that @"gordi" Life certainly decided to pile it on  tinycrying

All of the highs and lows, it can hopefully only get better from here. I Truly wish you and your loved ones peace and wellness, no matter how it may show itself. It just really stinks when it comes in waves like this  tinyshocked

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My thoughts are with you and your family, Big Man.

I've been through the same situation myself, but this isn't the right place
to speak of it.

Prayers are with you and your Mom.
Sorry to hear .... will light some joss sticks for them ......
My Dear Gordi,,, I'm So Very Sorry. 

I have my husband setting up another Healing Table as I read your post.

We both well be Meditating and I have candles and incense burning now for both your Mother and Sister.

Healing and Calming Thoughts are being sent now.
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Many, Many Thanks to you all.
It is very much appreciated.

G
Explanation: @Gordi you have my deepest sympathies and I hope for the best for you and yours.

Personal Disclosure: My grandmother is 96 and she has also recently been bedridden in hospital with dementia and so I deeply understand your predicament. tinycrying
Oh no Big G, I am so sorry to hear about your Mom, truly.
That has got to be tough on you, especially with all the other going on.

Not a very good way to bring in the New Year.

I wish you the best of luck, sending good vibes your way.
Along with my thoughts & prayers.



Stay strong my friend.......know we are here for you.



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1984hasarrived

Sorry to hear that @gordi, I can only hope that 2017 is a better year for you.

Thoughts are with your mum, and your family.
Sorry to hear about your mother and family members. I will pray for them.
I'm so sorry folks, it's sad news I'm afraid.

My mum passed away earlier today.

We were with her at the end and it was peaceful and free of pain.

I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for all of your kind words and best wishes, it was very much appreciated.

kindest regards,

G
(01-09-2017, 03:46 PM)gordi Wrote: [ -> ]I'm so sorry folks, it's sad news I'm afraid.

My mum passed away earlier today.

We were with her at the end and it was peaceful and free of pain.

I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for all of your kind words and best wishes, it was very much appreciated.

kindest regards,

G

I'm so sorry Gordi.   tinycrying

I hope you get some comfort knowing she is no longer in pain, and remember she is always with you anytime you need her.

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.  

Sending loving, comforting thoughts your way...


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Gordi So Very Sorry For Your Lose, My Heart Hurts For You.
At least Her Family Was Around Her.
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Condolences on your loss ......
Sorry for your loss..
My deepest sympathy for you and your family Gordi 





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Thoughts and prayers being sent to you Big G, from all of us!!





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Explanation: You have my deepest condolences Gordi! tinycrying 

Personal Disclosure: N/A.

1984hasarrived

(01-09-2017, 03:46 PM)gordi Wrote: [ -> ]I'm so sorry folks, it's sad news I'm afraid.

My mum passed away earlier today.

We were with her at the end and it was peaceful and free of pain.

I just want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for all of your kind words and best wishes, it was very much appreciated.

kindest regards,

G

Sorry to hear that @gordi, but as the saying goes, "She had a good innings". 

At least now she is at peace and is no longer in pain or discomfort.
Went through a similar situation my friend.

Stay strong and I'll be sending my best thoughts over the pond for you and yours.

Jude
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